You PULL him toward you with smothering behavior in order to ease your anxiety about losing him. Suddenly, an invitation to a fancy, home-cooked dinner at your place or a few “How’s everything going?” texts throughout the day, start to make him feel trapped and smothered.
You feel more aggressive inside than soft and sweet , more hysterical in your gut than calm and tender in your heart.
It becomes less about caring for him and more about getting what we want. We are smart, though, and mask our manipulations as “loving gestures.” Notice how our product is called “INSPIRE His Love For You” not “Make Him Love You”? You can’t force change on a man , you can only inspire him to want to change by doing things for his wellbeing and HOPING you’ve inspired his heart.
We know how to help you quickly heal your anger caused by his lackluster behavior or heal anger you’ve held onto from past relationships, in order to make you AUTHENTICALLY lighter and happier around him immediately.
The more desperate, greedy, needy, scared, angry, forlorn you feel because of a man or because of love in general, the more you STOP caring about any man’s wellbeing and start getting crafty about snagging him.
Affection is responsible for nine-tenths of whatever solid and durable happiness there is in our lives.
You can’t manipulate his feelings long-term , you can only deepen them through Love! A man can tell the difference between when you are doing things FOR HIM… and when you are doing things FOR YOU and disguising them as things for HIM.
I may not be 40 anymore but I know how to make a man notice me now. I feel like That Woman who walks into a room and changes the energy inside it. Thank you.” Dora, 63, Florida 3rd Mistake to Kill His Love For You: Smother Him With Your “Good Deeds” and “Sweet Intentions” When we feel closer to a man than he feels to us, we women begin to feel a strong need to make him love us more.
We know how to easily and quickly inspire YOUR sweet, loving, tender, trusting, “full-of-fun” side so you can inspire his.
Don’t worry, we have spent a lot of time and put a ton of energy into developing wonderful exercises, mediations, and tools to help you ease into being a LOVE GUIDE with men.
We also know how to get you believing and trusting IN HIM so that you are brave enough to share this side with him and not fear his rejection.
Otherwise, all your attempts at being fun and sweet will make you feel EVEN WORSE when he doesn’t respond the way you want him to.
When you panic in your heart and desperately crave more of a man’s love, you usually get manipulative and controlling with your actions and words.
We start DOING stuff for him or work hard to keep the relationship connected, in order to bridge the gap and “fix” his feelings.
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C.S.Lewis Now … Being the LOVE GUIDE and leading a man to the softer, more sensual, sweet-spirited, “bouncy” side of love takes confidence and trust that he will respond to your actions … especially if your relationship has gone sour.