After you have sent the above mentioned message...Your ex will probably call you or send you a message to know the rest...
" You are telling them that you have already moved on " - They would think how could you be over it so fast all of a sudden? " You are telling them that the breakup didn't bother you that much " - The fact that it didn't bother you that much will bother them...They would find it hard to swallow the fact that you got over them so fast.
Now do you know what you have done? Well...surprise surprise! Before your ex was just curious but now he/she would be burning with a compelling desire to know what you really wanted to tell them.
Once you are on the phone with them...Make small conversation and then tell them that you have something really important you would like them to know...And then hesitate! --- "Say...Ummm! Well! I don't know how to say this...But...I guess I shouldn't tell you...But...And then go quite" --- At this your ex would probably force you...But hesitate a bit more & then say...Sorry...I don't think I should tell you...I gotta go! And then hang up! That’s it...no more and no less! Don't drag it...Keep it short and hang up.
The Next Very Important Step...Read Carefully. Not only can I finally say...but more importantly - PROVE That my stuff works like magic... Now you will see magic unfold right in front of your eyes...I want you to listen very closely here...The guy/girl who was trying to avoid you all this time will literally be begging to have your attention after this point on...
They would find it hard to relax and get over the fact that you had something to say but never said it...And why would this work? Well humans have a tendency to desire what they can't have...And that desire turns into a burning obsession with time.
Amazingly something wonderful happened recently...I guess when things happen they happen for a reason...You know what?" --- Now this might sound incomplete with the final "You know what?" line.
But that is the big trick here...Leaving it incomplete will raise your ex's level of curiosity and he/she will get highly eager to know the rest of the message.
Don't be too surprised if your ex calls you right away... But this is where you need to be very careful...You should not return or attend their call right away...It is very important that you must follow through with my advice in my manual "Pull your ex back".
" By telling them that something wonderful recently happened in your life they would fear that maybe you already found someone else " - This will trigger their fear of loss to unbearable levels...And at the same time the fear that you have found someone else will emotionally push them to know more and more.
Which would create massive feeling of loss within them...This will make them want you more than ever before.
Now let me tell you why this would work...By sending this message, you are doing everything that would persuade them to desire you once again.
You are indirectly telling them- "You don't need them anymore" - This would seriously bother them as you have just told them that they don't have you anymore.
In this case tell them that you have something important to say and would like to get on the phone...To which your ex cannot really refuse since he/she is already jumping up and down with curiosity to know the rest of the message.