Now, here's the thing... If they call you, you've got to keep their interest piqued. You can't let your guard down and start confessing your dying love for them because you'll just fall right back to square one again.
The Instant Write-Off Method allows you to collect immediately because... Your ex freaks out at how you've suddenly changed your mind about them... You seem like you're over the relationship and already enjoying life. They'll want to know how and why you made this transformation so fast. Your ex drops their guard because they think you've moved on... Instead of being totally defensive against you... they'll start to warm to you again... trying to work you out and contacting you as much as possible. Your ex falls head-over-heels with interest in you again... They're going to be interested in what all this stuff is that you're doing and won't want to miss a piece of the action.
And then say something like, I'm glad you got the letter ok. I hope it clears up some of the craziness that's been going on..." And then after that you go and say, I'd love to chat more but I've really got to go now.
This is mega urgent. It's pretty exciting actually... but I've got to go... Let's catch up soon, ok?" And then hang up the phone on them. Don't be afraid to do that because it really does build up their interest further. They're going to be wondering what the hell you're on about... but it's all good because you can just use it to your advantage in the future. Your aim with the whole Instant Write-Off Method is to keep them wildly interested in you... by creating a sense of mystery as to how you're coping and what you're doing. Now in the event your ex doesn't contact you because they're still bitter (as was in my case), then don't sweat because there are other tools at your disposal.
Haha if only I could tell you..." *** Then sign your name and send it. But, make sure it's hand written because that WILL get read. This is powerful because it tricks your ex into getting really interested in what you're up to again. It's like you've become an untouchable thing that's just out of their reach... and that's what you want. Leaving that last incomplete sentence builds their curiosity to the point that they can't take it anymore, and they'll almost certainly want to call and see you.
As the English philosopher Thomas Hobbes once said, "curiosity is the lust of the mind" . Just another reason why the Instant Write-Off Method works so well. But Hang On... There's a CRUCIAL NEXT STEP Sending off your letter and charging up your ex's interest is one thing...
Maybe our relationship just wasn't the right timing? I don't know. What I do know is that I've got some really great things going on that I wish I could tell you about...
Blending Technique Along With Doing The Right Stuff " Blending " is probably one of my most ripped off methods that other "so called[...].
but when they call you, it's crucial that you know what to do to keep their interest piqued. Remember , the key to getting your ex back is to SHOW THEM that you've more or less moved on and are now really excited with some of the things going on in your life (reverse psychology) .
When your ex calls, make your phone call as brief as possible... I'm talking a few minutes max. Here's Exactly What You Gotta Do They call you up, you start making small talk about how you're coping really well.